DATING SOMEONE WITH A FIXED MINDSET IS SO DRAINING

 

There's nothing more draining than dating someone with a fixed mindset when you're an entrepreneur.

I was once in a relationship with a police officer. She was pretty that attracted me to her and I thought she was more ambitious since she was working.

The problem was that she had a fixed mindset. She was a robotick thinker. The fact that she had a degree convinced her that she was smart and didn't need to learn anything new.

So we never even had decent conversations. We will always talk about celebrities and whatever is trending on the internet that time. We never discussed new ways of making money or potential investments e.t.c

The other thing was that she was putting pressure on me. You know when someone is working pressurizing you to get a house, a sustainable job or sustainable business. Putting pressure on you to settle for less because people with fixed mindsets love security more than anything.
They start comparing you to their colleagues and their friends boyfriends.

It's like those people who believe that when you have a car then you're successful.

I decided to brake up with the girl. She nearly destroyed my dreams. You can't date someone short sighted when your a visionary. You're going to fight all the time and she's going to drag you down to her level.

Everything I've achieved today seemed impossible to achieve few years ago. I achieved it because I'm visionary.

In my struggling days I would walk 10km to hand out flyers in Town with an empty stomach.  When I was tired I'd close my eyes and visualize myself driving my own car having a nice life.
That's being a visionary seeing a bright future even when circumstances are bad.

My point is. Never get into a relationship with someone who has a fixed mindset when  you're a

big dreamer. She might take away all your dreams and throw them in a bin.
Have a great morning everywhere you are dear friends.
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        *06-02-2022*